So You Want To Attract A Soulmate… 

1. You cannot fail.  Everyone around you is a soulmate.  The more difficult they are, the more they have something to teach you, so the more important a soulmate they are.  Relationship is work, not a walk in the park.

    

2. If you are looking for the “love at first sight” or the strong attraction, know that most attractions like that are Eros, or Lust at first sight.  This usually dissipates after 3 months.  This attraction is felt with the lower part of the body.  True soul connections are usually felt in the Third Eye and sometimes in the Heart, because True Love is not a sexual thing.  Listen to your chakras; they tell you who is for real.  If all else fails, use your “gut”, the “power chakra”, to give you the truth.

    

3. There are “Twin Flames”.  That is, there are soulmates who are meant to accompany you once you have done your job on earth and no longer need to return.  The Twin Flame will come to you if you are firmly monogamous, are on your “life path”, and are devoted to your destiny.  They are truly your “other half”, here to accompany you on Ascension, when two become one.  The really are more of a duplicate, but their gender is complementary to yours.  The Twin Flame doesn’t come unless you “get yourself right”, because they will not fill up your holes or make you complete.  They are simply your equal; the opposite gender.  If you have stuff to work on, they will not arrive until one of you is good with YOURSELVES.  When you see people who are easy together, even after many years, you know they are Twin Flames.  These relationships are rare, but they are what we are all seeking.  That is why the true path to the Twin Flame is personal growth.

    

4. There are certain people who you meet many lifetimes in an attempt to square a situation.  They are indeed major soulmates.  Many times, one soulmate has evolved more along the spiritual path than another.  There will be many opportunities given for this relationship to grow.  You recognize these relationships, because they usually are long term relationships where you can’t quite “get it right”.  It may take your whole life for this relationship to get right, because one or the other person needs to grow or go on their own path alone, in order to find their way back to you.  Make no mistake; they may indeed be your soul mate or even unevolved Twin.  The lesson is, wait without waiting.  Every so often, you can give them an opportunity to come your way.  If they continue to rebuff you, believe them that they are not ready, and move along.  They may never be ready in this lifetime.  (Many times, one or the other is a spiritual teacher—and I don’t mean literally, but they are.)

    

4.   We sometimes have more attraction for specific people…sometimes these are      people we knew in other lifetimes.  Sometimes they are people who grew up in similar energies, and so you recognize each other by that energy. (similar parts of the country, or similar life family situations)  Sometimes you literally grew up in the same energies, because you are the same generation.  Astrology recognizes this as being obvious, which is why astrology is good for predicting chemistry.

5. You have 144 soulmates who are parts of the same soul-spark as you.  This means they have similar energies, and you will recognize it when you are around them.  However, if they are not an aware person, they may not recognize it.  Use patience.  But do not push yourself on someone or obsess over them—this drives them away from you.

    

6. The surest way to attract a soulmate is to concentrate on improving yourself.  If you do this, the soulmate will be attracted to you, even if you never leave the house.  Of course, if you never leave the house, you probably aren’t working on yourself!!! ;)  The point is, look within, not without, for your soulmate.  When you truly begin to love yourself, you will find a true soulmate around you.  You are more attractive when you are doing something interesting in your life, so get involved with SOMEthing!!!  GET A LIFE!

    

7. Therefore…make good choices.  A “bad boy” or “naughty girl” is probably not a good choice for a soulmate.  They (and you) will find one nonetheless, but it won’t be pretty.  (See Number 1.)  

    

8. Set your standards.  Make a list of your requirements for a soulmate, including looks and behaviors.  Put it in the first tense.  “He is like this.” “She is like this.”

    

9. Rate a date.  Because most of us are clueless when dating, make a chart that will help you determine if your needs are being met.  Ensuring that you are only going out with people who meet your requirements says to God and the universe, “I am ready for the Twin Flame, because I love myself enough to only accept the best!”

    

10. Once you meet someone, continue to live your life and improve yourself.

     

11. BE LOVE.  Smile, be friendly, and be loving.  There is no better way to attract a soulmate!!!  (You can attract loads this way!!!) (Oops!)

     

12. Do love meditations.  It only takes a few minutes a day to sit and imagine yourself surrounded with pink light.  Send that energy out to your beloved as well.  Try to send pink light from your heart to theirs.  However, DO NOT be obsessive about this.  If you are the obsessive type, only do it once every couple of weeks.  If you do it too much, you will drive them away!!!  So, cap it!

     

13. Be aware that not all people are at your level of evolution.  Sometimes when you go to send out “love vibes”, what you will attract is folks who think love is sex, because they are thinking of attraction at its lowest vibration, which is animalistic reproductive drive.  So, just because you are walking around in love or in a pink fog, don’t be unaware of the motives of others.

     

14. Sing love songs—happy love songs!!!  Make them up or sing along with your favorites.  Happiness has a vibration very close to love.  Joy actually has a higher vibration than love, so when you are happy, it is VERY attractive, and then so are you!!!

     

15. Imagine your soulmate with you.  Imagine them doing things with you.  Best NOT to put a face on the person in your daydreams.

     

16. Get a pet of the appropriate gender, because that brings that gender energy into your house.

     

17. As God (or your Holy One) to send your soulmate to you.  But don’t be surprised if he or she comes as a baby!  Soulmates come in all shapes and sizes, and can be friends, foes, or family!

     

HAVE FUN!!!!