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The Science of Prophecy

Predictions

Astrology is really an exact science, and not meant to be a parlor game.  Astrology is not about being psychic, although it is about being prophetic.  Your birth chart is a life map of cycles, based on such things as your exact time of birth in Universal Time, the date of your birth using a Julian calendar, and the exact location of your birth, and pinpointing your natal city on the earth's globe using longitude and latitude.  All of this information also needs to be corrected for things like Daylight Savings Time, logarythmic changes in the rotation of the globe as well as its circumnavigation of the Sun.  And let's not forget the planets!  Astrology is really all about astronomy, but it is also about symbols and symbolism as well. That is what makes it unique and intriguing.

What you will read here is a bit of generic fun.  If it works for you, so much the better!  We hope you will find out more about the amazing predictive miracle that is astrology by getting your chart done by a professional, whoever that may be.  Have in hand the exact time of your birth, the date, and your birth city's name.  You will be amazed by the accuracy of prediction!

Remember that "forewarned is forearmed", or as the Boy Scouts say, "Be prepared!"  Astrology can help to make life go more smoothly, and crises can become miracles.  If you already know that something is coming, it dispels fear and worry and makes all of life--even the hard stuff--seem more natural and part of the Grand Plan.  And indeed, it is!  You are not here on Planet Earth to goof around, you know!  You are here to experience certain cyclic experiences again and again until you find the best way to handle things.

In reading these predictions, look either for your Sun Sign, given by your birth date, or your Rising Sign, which is given by the exact time of your birth.  If you don't know what that is, call a professional to get this information.  Or send me your name, birth date, exact time of birth, birth city, and email, and I will look it up for you and send it back.  Using the Rising Sign is much more accurate than using the Sun Sign.  My email is
booklady@propheticeye.com

Thanks, and enjoy! 
Andrea 
 

Happy New Year!

This year tends to be a year of trying to keep the unruly masses down.    Sometimes the pressure cannot be contained.  Some people disengage from their emotional selves, and that’s when things really get dangerous, because when someone no longer cares about themselves, that’s when we all need to worry.  Third week of March is significant as Mars finally has his full power to act back.  Good news is people talk to lovers, significant others, spouses, and close buddies to work things out.  Some people will finally be reunited.    But this continues to be a year of trying to keep volcanoes from erupting, trying to keep people from freaking out or doing the unthinkable.  Expect more pressure and suppression by the government and especially THE LAW.  You thought it was bad before—just wait.    Things will get really anal in April.  Not a good time to travel, so stay home, and pick through your tax info. 

Major arguments outbreak the last week of April, and these continue thru May.  Expect some kind of unexpected explosion of actions or anger towards the end of May—the 27th? Or the first week of June?  That will be a difficult week.  Well, let’s say, it will be a really hot summer.  June 26 shows a cut off of communication. (Congress battles?)  July 27th offers even more upheaval and need to control.  In August, suppression and oppression get really bad.  Much of the time, you’ll feel you have to mind your P’s and Q’s when talking about things (the walls have ears), but by mid August, chatting will be all you have.  Oops.   Every time Jupiter (release) touches Uranus (the unexpected), we will have an explosion or uprising.    Jupiter and Uranus hang like unruly twins for months.  This is like having a disruptive teenager (times 2) who thinks he is invincible, and we have to be parents.  They are going to hang out together until spring of 2011.  So are we going to use the Time Out corner (will it work?), or will we have to get out the Paddle?

Back to May 21-June 6…look for someone acting independently to create terror and pain.  This will be a tough couple of weeks for everybody.  Even though we’ll be trying to control the upheaval, we just can’t.  I am worried about money issues too-banks, etc.    This is heralding the end of something—banks?  The Federal Reserve?  There’s something major going on behind the scenes there, and we are again being victimized and deceived.   Reputations will be blown to bits.  Greed (and some of the other deadly sins) will topple those on high.

So look for governments to fall and blood to flow in places like Iran.  Any governments that are not strong will probably fall.  September/October will be a lot better, but we cannot escape the unrest of the Jupiter/ Uranus conjunction. 

By December of next year, it will be announced that something is going to end, probably a monetary issue, and it will indicate that healing has begun.  Maybe it is restraints that will end.  These restraints and that which is holding us back may be ended the first week of November.    By Thanksgiving, there will be an announcement that this “ending” will be in December. 

2010 is a year when Obama needs to be very careful to be protected.    Memorial Day (last 4 days of May) is very difficult.  Just as he is making some monetary gains for the country, I am worried about his life.    The end of May to the end of June will be painful, and there will be some kind of ending 3rd week of June.   If he survives it, I am worried about his wife.  He has to be held down after that so he can heal.  I hope it is only a failed attempt.    There is something to do with Michelle—I am very concerned about the couple.   It’s possible that it could be Michelle’s mother, but I am worried that Obama makes it, but Michelle doesn’t?  This is very disturbing.  I don’t think it’s the mom.  Anyway, the mom looks okay to me, so—could it be she is leaving—this usually shows in charts as happy) but very upsetting for the Obama’s?  Barack gets hit the worst, though.  Then Michelle.   Mid June.

Tiger Woods is not out of the woods yet and won’t be for a long time.  Expect more information to come out about his personal life, which he will once again try to suppress, between April and May.  His divorce will take about a year and a half to complete.  He may think it’s done in November/December, but legal woes will prolong it to July/August 2011.  Working will be difficult for him, because he never knows how it’s going to go.  He’ll still continue to play the field romantically, but keep in mind that his transformation is not over yet.  Don’t look for him to settle down again for a long time.  He is going to come out of this a changed man, but maybe not in the way we think or hope. 

More women will try to extort money out of him, so look for them to come out of the woodwork.  (Or, “Woods’ Work”. )  He is going to have financial troubles especially in 2012 and 2013, and you will see that he is a broken man with no significant liaisons through the beginning of 2014.  He has to learn to curb his impulsive side.  Astrologically, it is clear that he does indeed have a sex addiction, but as we know, it goes much deeper than that—it is a bottomless pit of a need for love and adoration.  It really isn’t about power, folks, not at all.   He will try to make a comeback, but it won’t be what it was, and he will try to marry again, but can’t (and won’t be) trusted.  He will finally try serious therapy in 2016—won’t work.  He will finally meet a true soulmate in 2019, and that may be the solution, although she will have to be really strong, and he will really have to work to keep her.  There is hope for Tiger yet. 

 

(March 21-April 20)

Rams have kids, lovers, and projects keeping them busy in January, STILL!  Partners may try to keep someone from going bye bye—or work could be creating some pressure in the atmosphere.  Nevertheless,  work is on the brain.  If you were laid off or let go forcibly, get your legs out there networking with friends and other social situations.  That’s where you could pick up just the clue you need to get that extra income.  And we all know that even looking for a job is work these days!  Meanwhile, the people around you who feel lost and lonely may not like your bossiness, but they need it.  Just couple it with love, advice, and a nudge, and things will go better.  Mercury is retrograde until January 15, so even if you stop talking to someone (everyone’s a bit testy), you’ll be able to work some things out by month’s end.  Yes, there are some endings taking place at work, especially, and it is distancing some loved ones.  I suggest that if you or your loved one is jobless, volunteer in the interim to make connections and get out of the tension-packed atmosphere.  You are feeling kinder, the more active you get.  Opportunities seem hidden away, but they are there, waiting to come out and play.  Can you contain yourself till then and not be so hard on sweeties? As February opens, your loved one is hurting and is clueless about what to do, to please you and just in general.  As February goes on, they are going to feel more and more lost.  Right after Valentine’s Day, they may go missing or free themselves from the pressure.  Give them a break.  I see you get kinder, have a longer leash, but you are still using the leash.  I concur that you should, because they do something crazy that happens behind the scenes the first few days of March, and when Mars goes straight ahead and is full power, all hell could break lose.  Hold on, use the best of your generosity and understanding, and deal with your loved one’s vulnerability behind closed doors.   


(April 21-May 20)

Okay, I know it’s rare for work to be a drag for Bulls and Cows, but that is going to be the case for a couple of years.  Your partner has roped you into it—sorry!  Someone saying goodbye in your environment is going to make it even tougher for you, and January could see you and your partner at an impasse or not talking.  This will improve once we get past mid-month, but the work situation is uncertain, and if you didn’t already lose your job, you are probably safe.  The fact that you hate your job…well, that’s another story.  It’s hard to handle, you don’t know what to do about it, and it’s just a pain to go to, but it’s a job, so keep it while you can.  If you have trouble with the bosses, you had better buck up.  Home has a prima donna or primo don there as well, keeping the prod on your backside.  You’ll have a good chat with a loved one the first week of January, and although it seems harmless enough, it turns into a bear within a few days, and you’ll be sorry you opened your mouth. (The Retrograde, you know, causes communicational dysfunction)  Better be on your best behavior, keep your mouth shut, and find a project around home that needs doing.  Less said is more, in this case.  The third week of January, somebody shows up at work worth paying attention to, and it puts a little bounce in your step.  If you don’t get no respect from some folks, well, at least you can have some fun with others, and work needs a lift.  There’s some uneasy chemistry, that’s for sure, and you may find yourself stepping out on the town for the first time in a long time.  New friends and community actions are the order of the day for February. But even sweet things have their bad days, so work still maintains its rep as a hardship for you as people take advantage of you and bosses still keep a heavy hand on you.  It may be that work does turn a friendship situation into a sweetheart situation by Valentine’s Day.   It’s very exciting, to be sure, but take care, since the first week of March may have partners or bosses putting a crimp in your social life, as the lid blows off—or could it be that your new honey spills the beans?  Oops!


(May 21-June 20)

The Twins are going to be talking and doing some stuff with siblings in January and February.  The chats have been painful and about responsibility—who is gonna do what?  Yep, it’s the end of an era.  There a relationship with lovers and friends that is dying a long, slow death, and January opens with separation from loved ones and a transformation in what you are going to be doing for a job.  Everyone is talking and pulling some strings to get either you or the kid a job.  It is not welcomed.  Why?  Fear.  Doubt.  The pain of burdensome responsibility.  The uncertainty of that which is new.  This makes the atmosphere thick with pressure; there will be a lot left unsaid.  Work is probably going to be an intermittent thing for you for a long time.  Temp jobs, consulting work, self-employment, and sales are probably the best things for you now.  Siblings will remain feisty, and loved ones will seesaw from talking to you to NOT talking to you, being loving and understanding to being downright MAD.  Sorry, but this is the energy for just about everybody right now.   I think your lover or partner  wants you gone and is having trouble getting you out of there.  Give notice to your job after the Retrograde is over (third week of January), tell your partner you’re going home (back to your childhood home), which soothes them—and makes your sibs freak.  They don’t want to be responsible for you, after all.  I am not sure who ends up being the responsible one after that!  But I do see you working on a new job, a creative project with someone you adore, and that opens up a whole new world for you.  Siblings and partners still stay on you in February, although they see you are doing something, so communication seems better, and you feel more independent and self-sufficient, despite the hardships of a new environment.  A sudden burst of creativity and positive communication will be significant the first week of March, with great results.  Don’t let old lovers, kids, or partners rain on your parade!


(June 21-July 20)

Although the economy is affecting who you work for, and you just don’t know what’s around the next corner, things are going to stay the same till May or June.  So I hope you didn’t lose your job at the end of last year, because there is  no change in the job department for Crabs the first part of this year.  What is changing is a relationship is ending, but you are locked into an uneasy partnership because of family.  You aren’t going to get out of this one easily.  I see Crabs struggling to move monies and get themselves set for a rainy day—which has been ongoing for the last couple of years.    I think the end of your relationship is mutually agreed, but the details and the parsing of the shared monies and belongings are going to have to be worked on.   This is going to be the major subject of discussion, plus any shared obligations, like kids?  You have to remain in partnership while separating, and January starts off rough.  Are you having trouble ejecting someone?  Sometimes you are just over it, and then other times, you fight for control.  My suggestion: see a lawyer and let them do it.  Problem is, you don’t want to pay for that.  This may work better for you than negotiation, but that loved one still is rattling the cage of your bank account.    Everybody feels abandoned—it’s on both sides, remember.  One of the loved ones involved is afraid of their new start and afraid of responsibility—that ain’t you!  They’re afraid because they don’t know what to expect.  Some relief comes the first week of February—a little bit of freedom goes a long way.  Help this loved one to flap those wings and fly!  You yourself could get a new sweetheart around Valentine’s Day.  Look for the vulnerable to do some actin’ up as March blows in.  Although you’ll still have the same basic problems that you started the year with, money will flow more easily and exes, though difficult, will be open to more agreeable negotiations by then.  Best of luck to you!

(July 21-August 20)  
Lions are busy bees and on the move.  Their goal: get the work and money thing right for retirement.  Of course, the problem is that their relationship is either on the rocks or broken up, and there’s monetary issues that need to be looked at.  Business partnerships that have ended or are ending cause a difficulty, because love and money has gotten very entangled in Leo’s business ventures.  The desire to cut loose some of the obligations may be there, but cannot be completed now.  Some liaisons are going to die a long, slow death, and of course, that carries a trail of fees and penalties.  Leo tries to end things with love, and that is admirable, but sometimes you just gotta let go.  Monetary dealings in the future will be catch as catch can.  Maybe that’s why the Lion is struggling to create and keep his/her reputation, which has taken a hit.  So, it’s not just the pocketbook that  Leo has to preserve, it’s connections and PRIDE.  There’s a breakdown of communication at mid-month, and siblings are trying to keep a handle on Leo’s temper and behavior.  Siblings may even be trying to help out with work or money needs.  At any rate, someone who loves you is going to jump in and help you in your work issues and communication channels.  Don’t fight with brothers and sisters!  They are trying to help!  Someone is going to offer Leo a new business partnership opportunity towards the end of January.  So there may be fights and tit for tat between Leo and Loves, but meanwhile Leo still tries to pull treasure out of new business relationships.  It’s in the blood.  Lion, remember your ex is hurt, lost, and trying to bear up, so don’t bully or rub anything in their face.  By Valentine’s Day, you see their hurt and may allow them in on your business deal.  At any rate, it’s a loved one who helps your new money idea to develop and grow.  You may receive monetary freedom for Sweetheart’s day.   New relationships develop, but watch out for a loved one to either jump ship or have a hissy the first few days of March.  That’s when you know you’re really on your own now.  It’s lonely at the top, huh?  But, hey, “I Will Survive” can be your theme song.

(August 21-September 20)

Harvest Kings and Queens are freed up from personal pressure now that Saturn has moved into Libra, but instead the pressure is on money and money partnerships.  Get disciplined and play by the rules.  Follow the law.  Make partnerships but keep them contained and limited.  Your money making creative projects are changing, slowly, over time, so make sure that you are watching your reputation and carefully transforming your “personal brand”.  You are discussing a lot of ideas as January begins, while keeping in mind your obligations and responsibilities at work.  If you haven’t left a job, there are many opportunities around you, if you aren’t too obsessed with duties.  You are busy behind the scenes pulling strings that will later on have an effect—it may take until March to see those changes.  Keep on with your work.  This year is going to escort a new relationship into your life, so if your love life has seemed indeterminate, there’s going to be some growth in that area soon.  Money partners don’t particularly like your ideas as the month begins—they are running hot and cold.  I say keep on, keep on, and get a sudden surprise January 11.  It’s meant to be.  The burdens and responsibilities of life may always be there, but you are about to leave those worries behind, because your creative self also knows how to get things done from a practical level.  Even if people stop talking to you, you’re on the right track, and they’ll see it eventually.  The new relationship manifests at month’s end, and it has you of two minds: to accept it or not?  You’re in somewhat of a hermetic frame of mind lately, but again, this is meant to be.  There’s so much going on behind the scenes; be practical.  Just before Val’s Day, a hurting loved one comes a-calling.  Tread lightly.  They have a story of woe, and they want to get in on your creative ride.  Again, beware—there’s more you don’t know.  If your projects seem stuck in the mire in mid-February, fear not!  Mars goes direct the first week of March, and then you get a big surprise for your efforts!  Just make sure that it isn’t your new paramour having an outburst!  Control of others, rather than self-control, is the order of the day. 


(September 21-October 20)

Libras are now finally learning what it means to be under someone else’s thumb, whether it’s from marriage or some other constraint like The Law.  Lords and Ladies of Justice have a loved one in the house chatting up a storm.  It’s the end of one era, and the transformational beginning of a new way of living at home.  It ain’t easy!  If you feel like you’re walking on eggshells and have too much on your plate, well, yeah!  You do!  If you want some space, you better get a job!  Your social life is still pretty active, but I don’t think the homebodies like that you are out and about.  You can’t be the star that you were there, but you’re trying!   People at home are especially repressive and argumentative the more you seek freedom.  Keep in mind that you are here to learn how to be in partnership, not to go it alone.  So this may be a long, hard lesson.  Loved ones on the home front are acting out, and some may have an overindulgence problem, making them unstable emotionally.  Or, they may have a chip on their shoulder and feel unvalued—every time you go out.  It’s not good when a loved one is feeling insecure, and you have to constantly reassure them.  Loved ones cool and disconnect from you communicationally in later January.   If you have kids, they will be a bit of a behavior problem during this time, the more you go out.  They absorb the worry that the world is facing economically and otherwise and then unconsciously act out.  It would be a good idea for the kids to get jobs, go to after-school clubs or classes, or if necessary, get treatment by mid-February.  Can you see your way to give them one of these things as a Valentine’s Day present?  (I know it’s odd, but it really will help them to expand horizons and minds.) You too will start a new and creative work project then.  Things will be a little better until the first week of March, when your creativity boils over at work—or a very attractive co-worker has a disruptive moment.  You may get the go-ahead to go it alone on that project—or you may feel so oppressed at home that you decide to consider yourself single and put yourself out there again.  Whew!

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(October 21-November 20) 

Scorpions are natural suppressers of information.  This is why they are considered so mysterious.  They can keep a secret, and it looks like Scorpio has got a big relationship secret to stay mum about.  If you are using lawyers, they are going to be a dire necessity for the next 2 years.  They are going to be your negotiators and go-betweens between you and loved ones and siblings.  The end is coming gradually, but we need to make it as painless as possible.  Money and reputation are the topics of discussion as well as the strain on the family pocketbook and the unknown factors of how the family will be affected.  January starts with some promising discussions, and even though your job is on the back burner right now, that doesn’t mean that you can’t negotiate some business during this time.  Don’t sign anything before the 15th of January, though, okay?  And it’s really best not to take any actions until after the first week of March.  Mid-January shows a cut off of communication and the loved one looking good in this. Not to worry, there will be some new creative projects coming your way in soon after Mercury goes direct (January 17), so despite the challenges in your ability to shout it out, things are going to get better.  Your loved one will run hot and cold, and so you will have to be very disciplined in your responses to them.  Take the high road, and contain yourself.  It was your tendency to feel like you were invincible that got you into trouble in the first place.  You are not the boss—not right now.   The first week of February may be making you feel depressed, because of the uncertainty of it all.  Do not do drugs at this time.  Call your lawyers!!! (or other practical partners)   You will meet someone new while you are working on some new projects, and you may use this connection to soothe yourself.  It’s a pleasant connection to be sure.  Beware who you canoodle with, however, because even though the temptation is there, your old problems still need to be solved, and the new “project” could blow up the first week of March.  Beware being part of a new “explosion” and ending up in the ashes there.  Remember Scorpio is also the Phoenix who gets burned to the ground and then eventually rises out of the ashes to live again.  Make sure the old ashes are out, okay?


(November 21-December 20)

Archers are going to be undergoing a transformation regarding where their money comes from over the coming 14 years.  It could be time for retirement, or did your lovey take off with the cash?  At any rate, a loved one leaves just before the New Year, as everyone heads back to work.  Archers will be working with partners and friends to make the slow transfer of funds as they change their banking and career strategies.   I can see you are bustling to change the way you live your life, and it’s making communication (especially with siblings) difficult.  Are you learning a new language?  Sometimes you don’t know what to say.  And surely, you don’t know what to expect, but you are trying to grow and create a new and distant life for yourself.  Are you moving?  Although it may take the year for your new home situation to be completed, and although you may not be sure how you’re going to do and what’s going to happen, it will be done by fall.  Things start moving fast in February.  People who love you and people who depend on you (monetarily) are really going to miss you and may spend the next 2 months trying to convince you not to go.  But there’s a new love in your new home, so your heart draws you onward.  As you gather your resources and do your final banking plans, there is some pressure on you to stay put.  But you are going, and once you go, you will miss your pals for sure.  Still, you are drawn to make this very important change.  The only thing you have to worry about is a lover going postal in your home (1st week of March)—or surprising you with a baby!  Then, what?!  Bon voyage!

 

 


(December 21-January 20)

The Goat says goodbye to a loved one but keeps their job in an uneasy truce.  You have to.  Goats are going through a major life change and must consider carefully what they say in public, as they face financial woes, unforeseen monetary difficulties, and possible loss of savings and livelihood.  You can keep your job and some of your partnerships, but you’ll have to negotiate that.  It’s a tough time right now, so tow the line, do what Law asks you to do, see your lawyers, and consider your public and career persona at all times.  If you don’t, you could lose everything.   Communications should be guarded and only loosed intermittently.  You are working on creating partnerships, but you may see what looks like backward movement there until March.  Then things will change.  (Some for the good, some for the bad.)  Your relationships, especially with one particular person will be on-again, off again, good and bad in January.  Just when you think you’ve made progress, everything will go south.  Mid-January, please stop talking.  Well, there will be a cut off, whatever.  Toward the end of January, you will be discussing new business and new money prospects with pals. As long as you do things through the proper channels and stay “lawyered up”, negotiations will go better.  You’ll temporarily get to see folks you are missing, but it’s not for long.  An estranged loved one is really hurting and missing you, but right now, there is no solution to the distance.  You’ll either speak to your love right around Val’s day or slightly after.  While you are troubled as to your future with cash, continue to make overtures in business, then take care the first week of March as a loved one goes wacko and explodes.  Run damage control as best you can. 


(January 21-February 20)

Water bearers have had so many troubles going on in the last couple of years, because they needed to learn responsibility and faith.  They are just now coming to a point where they can emerge from this trouble, changed and reborn.  Someone may have passed away or left you, and it’s been a very private thing for you to deal with.  Sometimes you want to talk about it, and sometimes you don’t.  Do so only behind closed doors and with those you trust.  Your significant other is taking some action behind the scenes and will make a move in March that will really change things.  Watch that activity.  Or, if you think you’re alone or you don’t believe that your partner is getting ready to change jobs—well, they are making an effort.  What they are doing will not be apparent for several months.  They just want to be the boss, if only in their own mind.  Partners really are keeping an eye on things and controlling the situation in a very low key way.  They understand that the world is fixin’ to change, and they are going to try to handle it.  As soon as Mercury goes direct (January 17) you can start a new job, strike a deal, get a raise or bonus or come into money.  Do it, even if you don’t know what you are doing, because there’s nowhere to go but up.  You may do some arguing with your loved one over it, but keep on going.  If you or a loved one has been hurt or is struggling with these changes, be patient.  It will get better, as the monetary situation improves.  You may feel tied down by a certain business deal or partnership, but this new event happening with your money (the windfall) will surely make things better.  Just beware the ides of March as your loved one “loses it” in the first few days.  Then watch your partner move forward with the actions they have been planning for the last couple of months.  Take heart in your new money opportunities, and do your best to discuss things calmly and at a practical level with partner.


(February 21-March 20) 

Fishes have been surfing the waves of uncertainty for year and must be pretty good at it by now!  Good thing the fish are essentially spiritual beings, because faith is just about all you’ve had!  I hope you haven’t rested on hiding addictions to get by.  If you are worried about the ending of business partnerships, just keep in mind,  that is a slow transformation, so let partners and Legal take care of those negotiations.  You’ve got a really smart and business-minded lover, but you won’t always be able to act or depend on their advice, because they aren’t always around.  Legal difficulties may be challenging, but finally, if you’ve been doing your prayers, there’s a New You and blessings coming your way this year!  Hang onto your surfboard a bit longer!  The third week of January finally offers you some new growth, bright offers, and a New Life/New You.  It’s a glimmer of hope, as lovers go incognito.  FYI, later on, you’ll find out they’ve got some hidden problems too that they have not shared with you!  You’ll hear of their pain the first week of February.  Who knew?!  You thought they were on top of the world, and it sure looked like it.  Let them share their pain with you, because crises bring people closer together.  Your Valentine ’s Day could be a good one if you two unburden yourselves, and allow the relationship to grow.  If you don’t, there could be a breakup if the secrets remain intact.  The loved one probably will quite suddenly “unburden themselves” (or gets found out) by the first week of March, and the conversation that ensues will be revealing and really could help the relationship grow.  Get to work.  You’ll feel better.