Soul Mates 
 
So You’re Looking for Your Soul Mate…
So many people I meet are looking for their perfect soul mate. Many times they ask me, because I am an astrologer, “when is my soul mate coming?” In the astrology chart, there are indeed indicators of soul mates floating all around you. The question is, are you noticing them?
Indicators in an astrological chart of soul mates include one person’s Sun on the other’s Moon or Venus, or Saturn on the other’s Sun or Venus. Once a year, we have this portal to meet a soul mate, and usually this occurs more than once a year. For example, this happens as the transiting Sun and Venus connect with your birth chart’s Saturn. If you are aware of these times during the year, you can be more aware and open your eyes to those around you.
The truth is, anyway, that you are part of a soul group of 144 personalities. Every individual comes from an Oversoul which is split into 12 different souls, and each one of those splits further into 12 more personalities. (12 x 12 = 144) There are 12 corresponding astrological signs, and so each part of our Oversoul has leaders (Aries & Leo-types), busy bees (Taurus & Virgo types), family oriented folks (Cancer & Capricorn types) and so forth. Then each of these has its own flavor too—a leader type focused on family, a busy bee who has to lead in some way, a family person whose purpose is to serve. Astrology does help us to determine how we as individuals are expressing that spark of our Oversoul. However, any of those other 143 personalities are soul mates with which we could have a significant connection. Some are more opposite in expression to us and so complete us. Others are more like us, and we are in sync with them, as though we are riding a wave together.
The key is, we have lots and lots of soul mates out there to meet. Not all soul mates come to us as lovers or potential mates, though. Some come as parents or children, business partners or best friends. The most loving connection we have is the parent/child bond, so many times our true loves come to us as our children. This is the love connection that most completely expresses unconditional love. We give love and support with few expectations in return, and what’s more, we have to, at some point, let the loved one go to grow up and find their own way. This is the expression of love that is most akin to our own travels as souls being created from the Godhead.
As a matchmaker, I use astrology to help people see and understand the connections they have with the soul mates that are close to them in their environment: family, friends, as well as spouses and lovers. I also use astrology to predict “chemistry” with potential mates. If you have the birthdates, you can usually predict the chemistry. If you have the birth times, you can see how that chemistry will translate into every day relationships and shared experiences. For example, one soul mate could be a money connection and be someone with whom to share a business. Another may be meant to be no more than a friend, with no physical connection.
Significant love connections can indeed be seen in birth charts, and the karmic pull and magnetism between two compatible charts can be very strong. However, even with a soul mate, that doesn’t necessarily mean the relationship will work out. What is really important is the level of cosmic awareness and consciousness that each soul spark has, and how far each has progressed on the path of self-awareness. Sometimes, someone who is aware will feel a karmic connection to someone but still knows it won’t work, because that person knows his or her own destiny. Sometimes our destiny is to be attached, and sometimes our destiny is to be detached.
Astrology is great for determining what a person’s life purpose is and what the underlying growth patterns are. Some people are meant to learn about the material world, and others are meant to do the spiritual gig. Some are here for family, and some are here to go it alone. Even those who are here to go it alone don’t have to be lonely.
With 143 soul mates out there to meet and greet, in addition to other souls with whom it’s fun to have a “do-si-do” quick fling, each person can experience a truly fulfilling life, overflowing with love and laughter.
So the next time you open your mouth to say, “there’s nobody out there for me,” take another look. Your soul mates are all around you, and you can feel blessed that they chose to gravitate to you and be with you. Every relationship has meaning and depth, if you just turn and look into the other’s eyes. It’s said that “eyes are the windows to the soul.” Look into the eyes of those around you. You might just see your soul mate staring back at you |
 
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